Positive Aging Movement Part 3 Practising Affirmations

In addition to reviewing our life goals, we can also practice affirmations. Affirmations are brief statements that encourage self esteem and help us motivate ourselves work towards something we want. By maintaining a positive attitude and living in the present, you can actually reprogram your brain into thinking differently.

How do affirmations work?

An affirmation is a declaration that something is true and hinges on the belief that “like attract likes.” Therefore, if you only have negative thoughts and focus on what is wrong in your life, why you are unhappy, why you’re unsatisfied, you will bring more of the same into your life. Conversely, if you focus on positive thoughts, things that make you happy, things that bring satisfaction and contentment, you will attract more of this type of energy.

For affirmations to work, they must be positive, present tense, focus on what you do want, not on what you don’t want. Take a look at the following situations and affirmations:

Situation: You don’t see your children or grandchildren often enough	Affirmation: My family is loving, supportive and enjoys spending quality time together often.
Situation: You are looking for a romantic relationship	Affirmation: I am open to receiving love from the perfect man/woman for me.
Situation: You want to build your self esteem	Affirmation: My personality is radiant with confidence, certainty and optimism.

An exercise you can try is to think of something in your life you would like to improve and write it down. Next write an affirmation for it. When you have a list of affirmations, you should post   these everywhere, carry them around with you and repeat them to yourself several times a day.  Remember to write your affirmations in present tense and make a positive statement.

Shape new ways of thinking

Affirmations can shape new, powerful attitudes and fuel personal and professional success. They can help you to live out your imagination, not your history. Having a positive, introspective perspective can reinforce good health emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

It can be challenging to hold on to optimism and positivity. But don’t get discouraged if you have a down day. Just get back on the horse and stay focused. Motivational speaker, Drew Dudley states, “Ideas are like buildings. They can be constructed, torn down and renovated.” This gives you so much power to control ideas.

One thought can be powerfully negative and prevent you from moving forward. But a thought can be changed. And you have the power within yourself to change it.